A Black Man's Views on Natural Hair
Musician "Funkface" formally known as Kevin, gives his opinion on natural hair and believes that negative self-images of black beauty were instilled during slavery.
Tell us a little about yourself?
I am an artist, a pure and natural guitarist. I was once a stage performer but now I’m getting ready to return to the evil entertainment industry. I call my character, “Funkface.” I sure don’t look like Denzel so I gave myself that name. Lol, soon I will legally change it because I will not carry the name of my slave master, no disrespect.
I, also write reality/actuality show concepts, commercials, movie concepts, poetry and anything creative. We at Enter@ctuality Media (www.EnterActualityMedia.com) have several networks and production companies interested in some concepts as we move forward. Recently, I’ve been offered another record deal. I refused my last one but I think I’ll hold on to this one. I’ve worked with Lil’ Kim, Fishbone, Luke Skywalker, 2-Live Crew, Sublime, Scarface, Jr. Mafia, Nappy Roots and many other artists. Lol ok, ok, enough about me.
When you see an attractive woman in passing, what is the first thing you notice about her?
Well, because of the lack of respect our brothas show towards sistas, I look at her course of action towards a strong black brotha that is showing her due respect. So, it will be her facial reaction upon eye contact.
What do you think of black beauty in America?
Good Question. Ummmm, ummmm, ummmm. Lol, I think of Strength, Pride and Success.
Do you think that the media has a massive influence over the definition of beauty and has set the standard of what the epitome of beauty is defined as?
That’s the force behind the word beauty. It’s terrible how we secure our minds and thoughts towards the word “beauty” but in a negative way. Majority of the time we hear the word “Beauty”, we don’t think about Webster’s version of the word, we think about it in a sexual way. We think about it from our personally created dictionary. (HBO, MTV, and different Television shows). That is what drowns the word of its meaning.
There has been a lot of controversy stating that black men are not receptive of black women with natural hair, would you date a black woman with natural hair?
Of course! Life was given to her while she was pure and natural. She was shipped here pure and natural, so she will be loved by this black brotha as pure and natural. Respect to my Beautiful Black Sistas!
Do you think that hair has any effect on the ability for a woman to maintain a successful relationship? Explain.
Most definitely, some brothas can’t accept sistas with very short hair because of their manly manhood. I say, “Your fear is your fantasy!” Some don’t like store bought hair, some don’t like natural hair, some like relaxers and some don’t. It goes in different directions.
One of the main reasons women who are on the fence about going natural decide to stick with relaxers is because they think their natural hair will make them less attractive and disrupt their dating life. What would you say to woman who addressed this concern to you?
Your mind is still stuck as a slave. It was the look of the “master’s wife” that drew the attention of other wives and even your attention. Slaves recognized that as the standard of beauty so as of today, we have even started buying it. Not growing it, but buying it.
With the 60’s and 70’s came the attention of the, “blond hair and blue eyed” white woman seen on the billboards smoking a cigarette with her stringy, long hair. That was considered as “sexy” while stealing the eyes of the black man from our sistas. So, for sistas to gain attention they had to go where the attention was coming from. And now it’s considered as a sign of success within the system- better job opportunities, more attractive and more successful. There is an advantage to being “white-like,” and I mean no disrespect.
Have you ever been turned off by a woman because her hair was natural?
No I have not. Eve was a Sista created with natural hair. Get your Good Book out and read Daniel 7:9 and Daniel’s vision of God. He spoke of Jah with hair like wool. That sure isn’t a relaxer. That wasn’t a Caucasian. That was a pure black God.
When you hear the term “nappy,” what immediately comes to mind?
It has nothing to do with uncleanness but more of an uncombed look. Dreadlocks are part of a culture so I don’t look at it as being unclean.
How would you feel if you were dating a woman who wore a scarf or bonnet to bed to “preserve” her hair? Would you be any less attracted to her?
Not at all. I approached her {my lady} with interest. She had a relaxer then so I’ll die, still having interest, with her and her relaxer. She is still my Beautiful Black Queen wanting what she wants. But, sometimes we do need to save some money. It can get expensive, lol. Respect.
Natural hair has been stereotyped as “dirty” or unhygienic, what are your thoughts on this?
Please, don’t get me stuck on slavery. Lol, we would be sitting here all day. Before we were robbed of our spirits, our beliefs, our culture, our love for oneself and love for one another, it was not considered dirty. It was from us being degraded, called unclean, and called dirty so it was drilled into our minds and we lost ourselves because we were not like “them” {whites}. We showered and bathed them with water and herbs from Jah.
What hairstyle on a black woman would turn you off completely, if any?
There is not one.
Most naturals say that their hair has improved their dating life. Why do you think this is so?
We are starting to learn more about our African heritage, OUR culture. They didn’t teach enough about Black History when I was in school and we didn’t get any on the television. So, I think as time moves forward and history is brought to the table, we learn more about our culture and the beauty within. The great things we brought with our people and the great things we do today.
Where can we find you on the web?
www.EnterActualityMedia.com currently working on Show concepts and Music for our label, Enter@ctuality Media & Enter@ctuality Music. So if you go to www.enteractualitymedia.com, it can also take you to my past life in the Music Industry. You can see a little about my past. Endorsement and well known artist I have performed with. I can also be reached via email at EnterActualityMedia@gmail.com. You can also follow Funkface on Twitter: @FunkfaceEAMedia or http://www.twitter.com/EnterActuality
Thank you, Funkface for your input and your appreciation of natural beauty. It’s always wonderful to know that brothers are in our corner when it comes to reclaiming our natural beauty!
What do you think of Funkface's interview? Do you commend or denigrate his views and opinion?
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